Obtaining Favor (Part 6)

Proverbs 18:22, "He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." (Amp. Bible)

One of the things I always want people to distinguish is creation and formation. In creation, a woman and a man were created together in Genesis one. But in formation, a man was formed carrying within himself a woman. And the woman had to be extracted from within a man in Genesis two.
Therefore, for every man created, there is a woman created alongside him and for every woman formed there is always a man from whom she was extracted. This is the spiritual arithmetic. That, every boy child is born with a missing component, a specific thing that is taken from him while he slept and from it a woman was created. And that no woman is born unless a boy somewhere was first born, with a missing thing from which the woman is formed.

Refusing to get married is signing an agreement to remain incomplete. It is also compelling another person to either eternal solitude or to enter into a mismatch.
If you use a phone, you are well aware of a GSM card. You may have the most expensive phone, but you need the services of a certain network to be able to connect and communicate. Mostly, you buy the phone apart from or without the GSM card and you will have to buy it later or sooner. And before you insert a GSM card, you will have to check the size, whether it is normal, Nano or a micro card.
The same it is with a man's life.

A man is like a phone, And God is the user of that phone. For God to use a man effectively, He has to insert the right GSM card inside the phone. There are a lot of companies offering their GSM cards, and every card has its advantages and disadvantages. So, the user has to first ask themselves what exactly they need to achieve so as to know which network to contract. Women are like the GSM cards, they come into the life of a man to help God achieve something.
Yesterday, I mentioned that you haven't agree to be sold by your brethren. This means that you have to agree to be detached from your family. For anybody to achieve a good family they must agree to be separated from their family to be attached to each other to form their own family.

The reason why the Bible does not tell the woman to leave her father and mother, but instead says, "a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife", is because, the woman is supposed to fall-in in line.
It is supposed to be like the famous speech of Ruth to Naomi, "Where you go, I will go. Your God shall be my God. Your people shall be my people. Where you die, there also shall I die". Also, you need to know that a man carries a woman within himself, therefore, a man leaving his parents by extension means a woman leaving too.

The way to achieving your dream is by interpreting other people's dreams. The family setup is a combination of two people who are willing to interpret each others dreams into reality.
This is why I said from the beginning and I will repeat again, most families fail or break more because they lack understanding than they fail because they lack love.
A man can still love his wife and still cheat on her with another woman that understands him better. Many women ask this question, when things fall apart, "what does that woman have, that I don't?" They ask so pointing at their bodies to indicate that they are similar. And truly they are similar, but similar does not and will never mean equal.
We are similar to God but we are not equal to God.

Women are similar, but they are not equal in understanding. Some are normal SIM cards, others are micro SIM cards and others are nano SIM cards. You may fall in love with a normal SIM card only to find that your handset can only accommodate a micro SIM card.
I got a new phone some time back, previously my phone was using a normal SIM card. But this new one came with a smaller slot. But I thank God there is a machine to cut SIM cards. I reduced the SIM card into nano size. Recently, I was blessed with yet another phone. The slot of this newer one was a micro slot. I have to cut the SIM card yet again into a micro SIM card.

The size of a woman does not matter, what matters is whether she is ready to be cut to size to fit into his handset of a man.
A man may fall in love with a normal SIM card size of a woman only for him to find that his slot is a micro slot. This does not mean that the man will fall out of love with the woman. He may even marry her even if she is not fitting in, but it is dependant on the woman to agree to be taken to the cutting machine, so that she may fit in the slot.
A woman that refuses to be cut, may end up being just loved, but watch other women who can fit being inserted in the slot she is supposed to occupy. Please note that, they are not being inserted because they are loved, no! They are being inserted because they fit.
I have discovered that many women are normal size kinda cards. But few men come with such size of slots nowadays, most of the men come with nano-sized slots and even more than these come with micro-sized slots.

The problem is that, many women have refused to face the cutting machine. And so, men fall in love with the normal sized SIM cards, but have to search for a nano or micro size SIM card that fits in their slot.
As I have said, the way to achieving your dream is by interpreting another person's dream. This calls for a re-sizing.
You have to agree as a woman to be cut to size so as to interpret the man's dream for your dreams too to be interpreted.
God is the user of the handset, many women have refused God to take them to the cutting machine so that they may fit and fulfill the mandate of dominion that comes with the combination of them and their man.

Tomorrow we tackle the final episode of this seven days series. Not because I am out of words or I am done, but because we must stop somewhere. Hence, tomorrow we will tackle what God will allow us to and hope that He gives us another season like this some time later, or give me the energy to compile a book as many of you have requested. And yes, I have a few books I have written, The first is called "THE SECRETS OF A GIVER", the second one is called, "POSSESSION, ATTACKS AND DELIVERANCE", the third one is called,  "SIN AND TRANSGRESSIONS" and the latest is called, "THE LORDS' PRAYER". I distribute them myself and can be gotten only by contacting me.
Shalom and keep the faith.



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